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Kansas City Chiefs 31, San Francisco 49ers 20
The first half of Super Bowl Fifty-Four was back and forth between the Chiefs and Niners, with the game tied at halftime. In the third quarter, the 49ers began to pull away, with a 20–10 lead heading into the fourth quarter. But in the last six minutes of the game, the Chiefs offense, led by quarterback Patrick Mahomes, completed two touchdown drives to take the lead seconds before the two-minute warning. The Chiefs defense stopped the 49ers to seal the victory and end the Chiefs' 50-year championship drought.
        It was a great win for the franchise and head coach, Andy Reid, who up to then, was the winningest coach in NFL history, at 222–142–1, without an NFL championship.
        How did Reid and his Chiefs finally do it? The same way they did it throughout the playoffs. By making the proper adjustments to come from behind to win. Winning is about making adjustments when things don’t go as planned. Those with the grit and ability to adjust find a way through life’s obstacles where others fail.
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NO GRIT NO GLORY


True Grit

Who do you think of when you hear the words, true grit? Nearly all of you answered, John Wayne, which is who I think of as well. It’s been over 50 years since the 1969 classic starring John Wayne as Marshall Rooster Cogburn in his only Oscar-winning performance.
        Historians believe Cogburn was based on Deputy U.S. Marshal Heck Thomas, who brought in some of the toughest outlaws.
        In the movie, fourteen-year-old Mattie Ross hires Rooster Cogburn to hunt, arrest, and bring to trial her father’s killer, Tom Chaney. Mattie seeks Cogburn out because she had heard that Cogburn had “true grit”. The rattlesnake scene still brings chills up my spine!
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Fixed Enough


Blog Team
I hope you enjoyed Chris Jackson’s blog last week. Chris (AL), along with Ray De La Nuez (FL), Ken Watson (OR), Kai Munshi (GA) And Gary McCusker (CO), are on our new volunteer Writing Team. You’ll be hearing from one of them at least once a month. If you are interested and have writing experience, reach out, and we’ll send you an application.

Free not Fixed

After 30 years of full-time ministry I’ve recently become skeptical of “perfect” men. Cynical might be a better word. I’m not proud of this. In fact, I’ve recognized my cynicism as a heart issue that needs to be changed and am working intently to rectify it. Nonetheless, I’ve been pondering a phrase that keeps running through my mind—Free not Fixed.
          During my tenure in ministry I’ve encountered a myriad of men who, on the outside look free in Christ, but inside are held in bondage by secret sin. Experience has taught that the free in Christ aren’t fixed at all, but the admission of brokenness, and subsequent repentance puts the soul on the road to freedom.
          Alcoholics Anonymous has a saying, “You’re only as sick as your secrets.” I would add that being free (in Christ) does not mean fixed by Christ.
          I can already hear theologians typing their rebuttal!
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Made for Friendship


About Contributing Writer Chris Jackson:
Chris is an insurance agency owner and an avid outdoorsman who lives in Andalusia, Alabama, with his wife Shannon. They love to road trip and chase adventures all over the country

Friendship

I just got home from another Stupid Movie Night where some friends and I get together to…you guessed it…watch stupid movies! Our wives don’t like stupid movies, so my friends and I use this as an excuse to get together. Usually there is a hot grill, cold drinks, and a stupid movie. Sometimes there is a cigar, but always sore ribs from laughter.
        This same group of friends sends out a group text most days around lunch time, “Anyone available for lunch?”
        We get together a lot. Our gatherings are usually light, but sometimes…
        One of our friends has a wife with cancer. Another recently went through a divorce. Another is having some major health issues. Sometimes we attend Bible study together, but not usually.
        Usually we just get together and hang out. Unfortunately, to have a group of friends like this is unusual today.

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THUMB ON THE SPOOL


Learning to Cast
I grew up in a fishing family, learning to accurately cast a spinning rod at four years old. The spinning was my go-to for many years until the open spool reels (aka “bait casters”) entered my life. Open spool reels are used for casting large baits to warm water game fish, salt-water fish ranging from marlin to rock cod, and cold-water game fish like salmon and steelhead.
        The first, and most important, rule when using a bait caster is to keep your thumb on the spool. It’s learning the art of placing just enough thumb pressure on the spool to cast it maximum distances, while maintaining just enough tension to prevent the notorious rat’s nest, which occurs when the reel is allowed to free spool until rotations abruptly decrease upon impact.
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