I love the story of the guy who went to the Pharmacy to pick up some medicine for an ear infection. When he picked it up the instruction read, “Place one drop every eight hours in ® ear, circling the “R” for emphasis. A few days later he called the doctor to say that his ear still hurt, and he had questions about the prescription instructions.
        “Hey Doc, my wife told me to call you because she thinks I’m crazy. The medicine isn’t helping and is very uncomfortable to apply. Why do I have to put ear drops in my rear?!”

It is finished. It is finished? It is finished!

Something similar—yet very different—recently occurred on the Men in the Arena forum when men were asked about their favorite man quote. Over 200 men responded, including Brent from Texas who offered one of my favorite quotes from Jesus, ‪"It is finished. (John 19:30)"
        Trying to hide my passion I politely replied that he forgot the exclamation mark but opened a Pandora’s Box when I typed “Explanation” on accident. Brent kindly explained that “It is finished is actually one word—tetelestai”—and continued with an excellent teaching on the subject.
        Once I realized my typo, we had a good laugh (online of course).

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Hang Em High

Iconic Posters from My Past

I remember several popular posters from my Christ-less days of middle and high school. First was the iconic (1976) Farrah Fawcett poster so many of my middle school buddies proudly displayed, which back then was a gateway into pornography even though she was wearing a full one piece bathing suit!
        Then there was the classic overweight, shirtless man, sitting on a keg of beer with the caption, “No Pain. No Pain.”
        I loved that one!
        But my favorite was the desperate 1970’s poster of a cat, suspended in mid-air, while hanging on for dear life captioned, “Hang in there, Baby!”
        I laugh whenever I remember it.
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20 20 IN 2020 Part 2

It Ain’t Over until It’s Over
And it’s over. The holidays are long gone. The long-anticipated Christmas is over, New Year’s Day bum-rushed me, punched me in the face, and kept running. I sit in the wake of the holidays with a bank account in a recession and my waistline in inflation! Men, 2020 is upon us!

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20 20 IN 2020

20-Year-Olds, Time Travel, and 20/20 Hindsight
I wish I could have a conversation with my twenty-year-old self. I have a few things I’d like to say to that guy: “Football is just a game and not worth your worship(ouch). Go ALL IN when the dotcoms hit and pull your money early. Buy your grandma’s house on Pecho Street in Morro Bay. Surrender your life to Jesus now. Save your heart for Shanna. The one you are with is about to break it. The sins you celebrate now will be the ones you battle as an adult.”
       It’s true that “Hindsight is 20/20”. The idiom is used to explain that now obvious things were not obvious from the outset and that one can evaluate past choices more clearly than at the time of the choice.

       One of my favorite questions on the Men in the Arena Podcast is, “If you could travel back in time, what would you say to your twenty-year-old self?”
       How many of you would pay good money for ten minutes of time travel?
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Tis The Season To Love The Ones You Love

Immanuel—God with Us

Christmas is a time when we celebrate the most wonderful act of love—Immanuel
       God with us. It’s a time when we celebrate the God who drew near to us when we were far from him. Romans 5:8 says it best, “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”
       Better yet, Christ came for us!
       He stepped out of eternity and into time. He surrendered his throne for a feeding trough. He surrendered omnipotence for weakness. He relinquished his universal authority to be raised by teen parents.
       “Although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men” (Philippians 2:6-7).
       Christmas is a season to remember the God who drew near to us, and we should follow His example by drawing near to others.

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